You quit drinking. You’ve found some hobbies, you’ve learned to like fizzy water, maybe you’ve been to some meetings. And life is still… harder than you expected.
There comes a point in everyone’s journey when they realize… it was never about the alcohol.
Alcohol did a great job of covering up the problems. It did a great job of creating more problems. But it was never actually the source of the problems.
And when you realize that, you realize you need more than what most sobriety meetings have to offer.
- You need a place where you can feel free to dig deeper than the surface, because sitting on the surface starts to feel lonely and… empty.
- It’s time for you to understand yourself, figure out what really needs to happen to make life feel good.
- Because staying in that middle spot – the spot where you aren’t drinking, but you don’t always remember why – that’s a dangerous spot to get stuck.
No Alcohol Needed :The Community is a solution to the very real threat of looking back on your life feeling like you missed out on something that could have been great.
We’ve been there. We’ve been stuck before too, and we learned that the way to get unstuck is to have a community that provides space to talk about it. A place to talk about what’s real. Talk about what’s under the surface. To spend time with people who really get it: quitting drinking was the hardest thing you’ve ever done.
It also wasn’t the finish line.
When you have the right support, the right guidance, and the space to build connection and self trust, a happy, fulfilled life becomes a real possibility. You’ll know where you’re headed and how you’re going to get there with confidence.
This isn’t therapy. It’s not an AA meeting. It’s a group of people, guided by certified coaches, who know that it’s important to surround yourself with people going the same direction you are.
We outgrow sobriety meetings. But we don’t outgrow the need for growth, for healing, and for community. Life will always challenge you – and it’s so much better to face those challenges with supportive friends.
Here’s how it works:
- Introduce yourself (if you’re comfortable)
- The guides introduce the topic
- You spend 30 minutes in a small group of 4-5 people so you can build real connection without pressure
- We reconvene after and chat about what came up
- You leave with some new perspective, some things to reflect on, and a feeling of being supported
You can learn more about what to expect in the FAQ’s below.
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Frequently Asked Questions
When do you meet?
We meet every Monday night, at 8:30 pm Easter / 5:30 pm Pacific
I’m not in AA (or any other program.) Is that okay?
Absolutely! We aren’t based in any specific program, but we believe there are many ways to do this. Our gatherings fit with any of them. If you’re navigating an alcohol-free life on your own, our group will help support you as you find your way.
I’m in AA (or another program.) Is that okay?
Of course! Our meetings don’t conflict with any recovery programs. We create an environment that will support you as you work the 12 steps, or any other formal program.
I’m really shy. Do I have to talk?
Nope. You are welcome to just listen. In fact, you can even keep your camera and microphone turned off. We only want you to share as much as you’re comfortable with.
Are you trying to sell me something?
No. While Julie and Steve are both recovery coaches, we provide this meeting for free to anyone who wants to come, because online gatherings like this are exactly what saved us. We learned early in our own journeys that connection was the thing that was missing, and we don’t want anyone to have to feel like they’re alone while they walk their path.
What are some of the topics I can expect?
Past topics have included: dealing with regret; effective self care; rebuilding trust; healthy relationships. We are always open to topic suggestions, so feel free to share if there’s something in particular you’d like to talk about!